“They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.” Revelation 12:11
The worst
kind of lonely for me is being surrounded by people and yet still feeling
utterly alone.
I can feel it at a restaurant full of noise and
activity and people talking loudly over one another. I can feel it in a mall
bustling with crowds and overhead announcements and music meant to move
everyone along. I can feel it even in a house full of voices I know with all
the typical background noises of this place I call home.
The world is
spinning, people are connecting, and music is playing … and there I am in the
middle of it all, smiling on the outside but crying on the inside.
It’s like one of those Broadway show moments when all
the other actors are frozen in a moment of activity, but the spotlight gets
thrown on the unsuspected girl stage left. She sings a sorrowful solo about all
that’s going on inside her world. And the brokenhearted ballad strikes a chord
inside the part of us that feels so very alone as well. We swallow hard,
because it could so very easily be us singing that same song in the midst of
the crowds of our life as well.
Never have I
understood this feeling more than when my husband passed away and I was left alone.
Part of the problem was I didn’t know exactly what was
going on. But the other part of my silence was because I wasn’t sure what to
say or who was safe to say it to. So I just walked through my days pretending
to connect with others while feeling so very isolated.
This is a huge tactic of the enemy. He knows if he can
isolate us, he can influence us. He can make us so consumed with the hurt and
convinced it will never get better that we miss one of God’s greatest gifts.
God created us to do life in a community of believers where we can go stand on
someone else’s faith when our own gets shaky. People who can help us see the
hope in the midst of our hurts.
We need each other.
God designed us to help each other.
Who do you need to share your tears with? Who needs to know they aren’t alone?
I know how hard it is to open up about our deepest
disappointments. I deeply understand how terrifying vulnerability can be. But I
also know there’s someone else in the world who would drown in their own tears
if not for seeing yours. And when you make one other human simply see they
aren’t alone, you make the world a better place.
God Bless
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