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Employees ask, "Did I do enough?" Children live from belonging. That difference is everything when it comes to how you relate to God.
Paul writes that God "predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will" (Ephesians 1:5). Not reluctantly. Not because He was short on options. It pleased Him.
It's easy to slide into relating to God like a boss instead of a Father, especially if you're wired to be useful. You know how to show up. You know how to fix what's broken, provide for your family, keep everyone on schedule, make sure everybody's okay. Those are good things. But if being dependable quietly becomes the way you prove you're valuable, you'll eventually turn even your relationship with God into a performance review, hoping for a passing grade instead of resting in a place at the table.
Adoption means you didn't earn your seat and you can't lose it by having an off week. You can bring God your tiredness, your short temper from last night, the argument you're still replaying, and you don't have to manage His opinion of you while you do it. A child runs to a parent with a skinned knee without wondering if he's still welcome in the house. That's the access adoption gives you.
This is worth carrying into your family today, too. The same grace that lets you stop performing for God is the grace that can help you stop needing your spouse or your kids to perform for you. You don't have to run your house like a business that only rewards output. You can build a home, like God built a family, where people belong before they perform.
Today, when you're tempted to measure your standing with God by how the day is going, remember: you're not an employee waiting on a review. You're a son or a daughter, already home.
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God bless
Tammy
